3-Tier Theory....

Wondering wat this 3 tier theroy is all about....!!! Any guesses....

Well it about human behaviour and attitude.....well, no..no I am no MBA student..to lecture on this ...but its wat i follow and may be many follow but donot realise....i did not think of putting it in black and white till i talked to a friend of mine.....

What is 3 tier theory ...well the name is as put by me ...a trait which i constantly follow ...may be tat why i might be called stubborn/fussy as many may say....

About me first as this trait is strongly noted in me....I am person who loves to learn from life, time and people around me.It is quite important ,it help you be a better person and helps u face tomorrow better.
Am i sounding like a management student ....Hope so not .....

I am person who believe that any work done should be near to perfection and such that no questions can be raised on it.(Kaam karo tho aisa ki sab yaad karay!!!)...well i guess u should be know for quality of ur work.(well many might not like it but..tat way i am )

Now wat is 3 tier theory.....well it how u react to situations....many ppl may go bonkus over a situation,many may handle with patience,many may rather not bother ....Human traits r many and u cannot define them ..but i tried defining one tat is my own one.....
Okay imagine a situation "suppose there is problem in team,i know other team is wrong, i give 3 changes for them to admit it ".... ( this 3 is responsible for the 3 in 3 tier theory.....3 seem to be my favo number)
Why 3 chances ???
They always say ...give a chance for a mistake .....when so tat make total 2 na ( one time mistake >1 time learning time from mistake)but i give 3 times,so hence now u know from where 3 tier theory got it name ...(aray ... okay computer say borrow kiya tier theory)...
okay this way i put it

1. mistakes can be made once
2. 2nd time is chance
3. 3rd is warning ...after tat u know wat i can do, 3rd is my last and drastic step i take...

so tat why i say 3 tier theory ..dont know how many follow it and did any one not it ever...
for me it works ..thats why it makes me the way i am .....like it or dnt like it ....but i just love this theory.This attitude i carry ...
People with good attitude do survive..but just tat things goes a bit tougher if u believe urself then u should go ahead ...couz atleast u have satifaction of ur quality which shines when u ppl see or know u ...

Never do anything with 1/2 heart u never suceeed,as output would not be upto ur cabilities..if u think...tat u learn to develope to like it later....be careful ...couz when things go wrong this though is definite to hit u ...." i never liked it much " & may take it for granted...and not seriously work ..
But if u were not sure of wat you have to do then its okay ...u can pick up tat attitude ....but u know what u want to do ..never take risk for ur success..( tat what i think !! dnt know if u agree ...forget not i write what i feel , what i think is right )

Ehmm.... so i tried not to sound like management student/lecturer....but cannot help it if i did ..hehe ...human trait study is intresting ......
In future post u would know more ....as i decided to write down every thing i learn from human & their traits ............

Face to Face

We come face to face with lots of things, fear, failure,unpleasnt things/people.,also ppl we dnt wish to see in life, with the weakness in us, with situations we onces dont wish to come across.
Life is like a mirror ...which makes us face those things which we like and which we dont like.

Ever noted when we come face to face with ourself we realise lot of things , a lot of question s arise, some can be answered but some cannot ....
But we know every question in world has an answer, nothing is here without a reason....Nothing with out a purpose......Then how come ,why ppl say tat...there r few things tat cannot be explained.....
Why do not we come to face to face, why do we find reason to evade of the answer ....couz they r hurting.or just to please us.....
"I don't know"....as i say, as it has been told to me by my elders(my uncle,which i remember till date) it means to say tat person know everything....but just organising the though or giving it a second though.....
(Heeheheh wondering where i began and where i ended ....well, ask my close friends..they tell..i jumping jack ...start one topic jump with a weak link....u keep wondering ..and dare not ask me how does the next topic link couz i tell u tat weak line to u as well .....)

All i can say : " Imagination is window to the beautiful world ahead.............."

Smiles...the Warmth feel

Just imagine a morning when open ur windows, the sunrising, u watch the people passing by in the street and every one had a warm smile on there face, sounds cheerful ....Great way to begin the day... so beautiful ( even the thought)...

Is it so easy to Smile?

Well, i dnt think so... The toughest when you everything is going wrong in front of you. When you want to break in to tears and yet you have to smile ..or put up with tat smile....

Ever seen that smile has lot of pain, a lot of feeling ..which need not be ever explained.....and the eyes says it all.


Smile has it charm ....can make someone feel better, can also get someone head over heels for tat smile.I guess a fake smile and a smile from heart can be clearly distinguished. Plastic smile, would never have the warmth and the real smile ..really for a sec may make you forget everything.
It is always said a smile on a face need less of muscles working rather than a sadness on the face,And also a healthy excercise.(Have heard also it also a secret to keep a face young ...smile....how true is tat God knows. But nice reason to get people smiling.... :-) )

Ever notice though at time it really ache laughing and smiling but still, that smile remain ..we dnt grumble abt it ...tat moment is full of fun .....
It is for free,it does not cost anything.It there with everyone ...high or low...small or big...
Ever seen a small kid giggle, the sweet smile on the kids face with twinkling eyes....quite true,pure straight from heart.

Warm smile say its all , a greeting, well wishers,i care.......you can interpret it anything positive....as long its a smile from heart...

Life+Friends+Time+Hope+Goal+Priorities.....

Well...Life....
Cramped up with all little little things ..say it friends,family,hopes, goals,wishes,
Life is... Kind of package given to everyone...same properties, same elements....but difference is how one uses them ...by using appropriate access specifiers.
Ehmm am i talking too much technical terms....ehmm seem like Java is no different from life ...just tat Java was made by humans...Life is by some supernatural power...tat cannot yet be described or explained....ehmm ..well not comparing Java with Life....

Actually, I realized many a times there comes a confusion a clash of wat to chose of wat not to ..Friends/Goals/....i mean there does come a confusion in everyone's life....when u have to chose between all ur important things...Priorites...
I guess i do have but i guess i need to learn tat....couz i evaluate almost everything on same level.
I guess my attempt and my pursuit to get everything working and everything happy kind of...God knows how long will it work....
I guess experience and life with teach me....My best teacher ....

My whole point for this article is not to speak my though ...but had a idea may be everyone goes through it ..but just keep it to themselves....
If you ask me I was trying to live in a so called perfect world ..which world is not ..not every element in the world is constant.Changes do take place....but i guess the basic properties of almost every element is same...just an updation/deletion takes place or rather may be some new properties may add on....
ehm.....i guess Java ghost got in to me ..tat i am speaking tat way....
I guess i write better the next blog....and stop before i land up using every concept possible and rather invent new ones .....
( i guess i myself am not able to understand .....but still bear with it !!!)

Few Moments of life,i remember....

As time goes by....and as thoughts flow by ...few memories come in my mind..of my past and those wonderful time i had ..which i remember.... till date.

As a baby ..must have been a naughty child...must have been a sensible /serious one ..must have been different in many ways from rest ( i know none, but my parents must have seen tat in me) ....But one thing i know for sure is,I was a unique for my parents.
Being the youngest, you could say i was kind of pampered by eveyone ....aaha ..not to forget my sister and brother also contributed to it a lot.....I guess that why i always took life lightly & coolly or guess still taking it that way(Strange!!!!).
An incident which obvious i dnt remember....but my parents keep telling me...
This was @ Triupathi,I was hardly 2-3yrs.Well, before the darshan ..one has to wait in a long qeue,well so did we...as my sister being eldest was given the responsiblity to take care tat i dont get lost.Some person was speaking in really loud voice to his wife...(ehmmm nice way to become center of attention.....hmmm...)obvious having eveyone to watch them ...But me as curious as cat, have to explore everything around ....managed to slip myself out from my sisters attention...God know wat went in my mind...went and slapped at that person's bald head.....(Opps!!! did i do something wrong ..ehmmm rude thing to do ..but then i was a kid na..!!!!)
Imagine a music system playing in loud volume all sudden comes to zero level ....would not it catch all the attention.....well the same thing happened here tooo...Ehmmm!!! yah just that again i gave a shock to my parents ..couz they though that person was sure to shout at me for my innocent act...but things had to happen different....he did not say a word,his wife was kind of smiling and me cheerfully returned to my parents....guess what...it seem he never spoke tat way the whole time....infact where ever my parents saw him in temple ..he just gave a sweet smile....
( Hmmmm....i guess naughtiness for purpose ....wat do u say)
Another incident....which i remember.
The space beneath the bed used to be my tent( who can stop the imaginative world ...... )and on such occasion i slept off...i guess i was hardly 4-5yr....and finding me not around a search squad was sent across to find the little missing girl..(who else's me!!! aray i was sleeping beneath the bed na )...must have given worst scare to my parents...finally after hours of pursuit....some how a thought to try home search again for last time came in to view.....finally .....!!!!!my papa found me...God ..the blast i got that day......but i guess i understand why i got that....after all i gave them a good fright(hey, now i was kid i found it cozy...i slept...abb, this not my fault na)......

When I think of such moments..it seems like i flippling through some old books or rather a Photo album...Still remember of beautiful places i have been in our country, of beautiful flowers, of the rivers,of the drops that seem to have light of its own in the light of sun.Of the snow.the sound of birds, wind &nature,of the tension i might have given to my dear ones.
Time really flies....but these moments seem to happen as though it about yesterday i'm talking about....
Life, these were just few moments, if i get to writting the list is tooo long ...............i guess it same with everyone....But experience in life teaches you a lot...i guess best teacher's award goes to life.
No one can teach you better than Life itself, tat wat i believe. High or low,good or bad ..everyone goes through them ...so am i.

Dosti...

I was just wondering what am i suppose to write on....my fingers were etching to type a & imagination waiting to drive me to different world....most important my heart wanted the freedom to speak......then a good friend suggested a line of topic, but of all Dosti was something may be i wanted to write on...

Many people may come and go in one's life.Some may stay forever,some for some time and some just vanish with the wind.....but the one who stays forever is rare these day...couz that person is really a true friend...These days it really hard to find true friend.
But, with time with your surrounding also people change...everything is bound for changes...then what are people then.....are they not bound to changes...but still when a friend changes, a friendship changes ...Why do you feel bad ..kind of uncomfortable kind of unbelievable.....
Is "dosti "limited to just time ...Is it that no friendship is life long.....I don't know ..But may be you know the answer...Let me know if you do ....Because I have tried being one of them,but then it is not all effort from one end it has to be 2 end that keep dost ...But still it nice to know ur thought about sometime someday...As a good Dost....

I think "Dost" is all about impact of one on the life of the other...May be for the good or the bad...The impact of person in once life matter.........I guess it all about person,impact, the moments shared..All in short called "Dosti".

Shero-Shayari

Hmmm....
There was time when, urdu ...not many of todays generation knew....but then all sudden after relase of certain movie(that used shayari rather than dialogues,"sorry no offends!!!") ...every one seem to be keen intrested in shero-shayari...
Today,it is kind of fashion statements...a way u can show off.... rather another way to impress girls(may be,no hard feeling pls)...
And yes for many it can be a start to urdu shayari ..a new way to express onself....in poetic sense....

Urdu once upon a time an official language in certain northen states which was later changed to hindi....Sure what ever may be the reason ...this language does have it charm...from the king in the olden days to youth of today ....shayari still has maintained it magic,a never ending one........

Time !!!

Why? A question arises in my mind, Is human helpless in front of time ? I mean for a sec the person may have felt tat the whole world is in his hand and near to wat a person dreamt ....say it anything career, ambitions, dreams ....and then at the nick of time everything turns upside down ...why? why could not human atleast achieve some control over it...After all human claims to have powers considers it superior to animal...but r we really?????
Strange though, but just happen to come......couz i am also a one who is trapped in the time trap.. time some how make one feel helpless...
No matter what one may say....u can control time....can we really? we can assume tat time shall not go bad, but can we? may be try twist it to our favour...but still time makes us take tat efort na....
well let me give some rest to my thoughts.....let it stop for time being......Time!!! must say tat ticks its way out....

Fraction of seconds

In a fraction of time, things change from good to bad from bad to good....u never know wat going to happen in next sec....
Accidents, career, happy moments,everything in world work on time fraction.....someone above watching above... for them seems like a huge theater and lots of happening at different end...
how insecure time is.....
how unrealiable things r.....
but where there is a smile every fraction is an experience.....

Gem stones of sky....Stars...

The hour when the sun shy away ..the birds retire home...few still at work and few back home sleeping it then when these tiny little angles arise in the sky ....in some design as though someone took the pain to design the empty sky to add some charms to it...... the stars in night sky.


The amazing part....at night when evere look up ...we know they r always there watching us....the little shiny one...wonder they have life of their own.....
Who placed them there ....but defintely a smile runs across ...when i see them ...when the world seem to busy and everyone is lost .....there one thing tat always makes me feel back to life....there always one thing that makes m feel special ...one thing tat always with me...stars.. the night sky ...
The gentle breeze tat seem like ur been hugged the stars like friends make u feel u there and not alone...no matter how lost the world is .....relaxing is it not.....well for me it is.....

rains...!!!!!

Sunny day.....the hot burning sun....seem like the sun is really thirsty....god a though to go out ,itself make the mind uneasy.....
Nature has its own ways to tell us how to enjoy it......
Suddenly.....the sky turn dark the wind seems to have a mind of its own ......sweeping away the dust and anything it can on its way.....all anyone may wonder...why? such a change......why is the nautre acting more like a monster.....
but then u feel the gentle drops ..from heaven , acting as a blam to the confusions created a little while ago...
The sweet fragnace of the earth around....now shows how thirsty the earth was....and he brezee being more gentle tempting u to walk out of the shade u were ...to protect urself......
Rains!!!! the first rains ...are always a sweet ones.......but then when they rain too much ....wishes r back for the warmth of the sweet sun.

Wonders

Wonders....i just keep wondering ..why things happen ...who manages them ....past few days the bangalore evenings were wet.....the nature too wanted its change...i guess that why from the sunny hot weather it changed to rains.....
Wonder, days do they ever remain the same???? The usual days begins and ends....but then wat is going on ...is this all ???
It is always said people come and go in life ....some remain and some fade.. why is it like this....
Ahhh!!! if i give a chance for my thoughts to go on, they keep questioning me....now tat going to be tough ...finally after all i'm the one to answer them.

Ehmm ...i guess this little word wonder means a lot ...it means a question, it means an answer ..it means a statment of facts to some...but to me right now it just means a list of question waiting to be answered some day

First Though

A first thought that comes in my mind.....Who am i writing for??? Who is ever going to read it .....but then a gentle breeze a smile across my face....i am writing just for me.. a place where i can write my mind ...